I want a husband

I want a husband that will provide financial support for our children. I want a husband that will care for the children with me when they are ill. I want a husband that will aware of future doctor’s and dentist appointments the children will have. I want a husband that will attend recitals, games, and other activities the children have. I want a husband that will read to the children before bedtime, even if my husband comes home late from work.  I want my husband to take a motherly role with the children. I want a husband that will make the children exercise. I want a husband that will encourage the family to be active in the community.

                I want a husband that will not limit my shopping addiction. I want a husband that will enjoy going shopping with me. I want a husband that will give me feedback on the clothing I have recently bought, rather than criticize it. I want my husband to buy my husband’s own clothes. I want a husband that will help in picking out the children’s clothing.

                I want a husband that will help me with making diner. I want a husband that is a good cook. I want a husband that will do my husband’s own laundry. I want a husband that will make the beds, clean the table, and do the dishes. I want a husband that won’t sit on the couch after getting home from work and expect me to become a maid. I want a husband that will share the finances with me. I want a husband that won’t feel superior to me if my husband earns more money. I want a husband that won’t feel inferior to me if my husband earns less money.

                I want a husband that will watch “chick flicks” with me whenever I please, and enjoy it. I want a husband that cuddles with me on a rainy day. I want a husband that isn’t afraid to cry or tell me my husband’s problems. I want a husband that will listen to my problems. I want a husband that will want to be heard, and not store problems in my husband’s heart. I want a husband that won’t change after marriage. One can only wish for a husband.